My boyfriend slept with my sister, what should I do?
HAPA CHINI▼▼
HAPA CHINI▼▼
Ok,
so let me fill you in on the situation. I was with my boyfriend for 6 years
straight, it was never an on again off again type relationship. We have a 2
year old daughter, we had what I THOUGHT was the perfect relationship, never
had any major problems, we lived together for 5 years, he’s always been there
for me and I’ve been there for him, he was part of my family, everyone loved
him, he had no other family of his own, except his mom and sister who he
doesn’t see often anyways.
He
was my best friend. As for my older sister, we always got along, I was closer
to her than any of my other siblings, never fought or anything, didn’t hate
each other, when she needed money I gave it to her, a ride, I was there. I
helped her with EVERYTHING.
Well,
in November I found out that my sister and my boyfriend were sleeping together,
not once, not twice, but through a period of a whole month, she also bought
another cell phone so the two could keep in contact. I found out because her
boyfriend was going through her purse and found the phone, I’ve read all the
message which were clear that they were having se.x
A
week when by and I got none stop messages and phone calls from the boyfriend
saying he’s sorry and blah blah blah… we talked it out and he told me
EVERYTHING… even stuff I didn’t want to hear. But anyways its been a little
over 2 months since everything came out in the open, me and the EX-boyfriend
are no longer together but he is still in my life because of our daughter, he’s
a great dad by the way just a sh!tty boyfriend… like I said it’s been over 2
months and I still have not gotten a single word out of my sister, who knows my
number and where I live, she hasn’t shown any remorse for what she’s done since
the day it came out, the only thing I’ve heard from her is cussing and accusing
me of sleeping with her boyfriend to get ‘revenge’… which I would never do
because I have more respect for myself.
Anyways,
I really wish I could forgive my boyfriend because I miss my family and it just
doesn’t feel the same … a part of me says to forgive and forget and another
part is saying he will cheat again…
I
told him if it was some random girl MAYBE I could forgive him but this was my
sister! WHO DOES THAT!!!
Should
I forgive and forget about everything with both of them? I don’t believe in
giving cheaters 2nd chances… so my question is.. What would you do?
HAPA CHINI▼▼
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